This “going through a man’s phone” is at best juvenile and immature, at worst indicative of personal issues that need to be addressed before pursuing a romantic relationship with anyone. If a woman feels the need to check, then those suspicions whether unfounded or not should lead straight to an exit out of the relationship. What is the point? Work on your own internal conflicts, your trust issues, your insecurity instead of dragging others into your torrent of misery. And those men complaining about getting snooped on? Maybe stop cheating (hahaha I’m kidding. No I’m not) or how about screen your partner for potential childish behavior before getting involved. Just an idea.
A few weeks later I found out who he was “getting himself together” with. It happened to be a woman that worked at his mother’s job. They had become very well acquainted being as though she got them both the job at her place of work. I only found this information out after he confessed that she was 3 months pregnant and was…